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urgh. had mild anxious moment today with the baby. it's so hard. it's like my life is wrapped up by this adorable little one and i want her to always be okay and good.

andy is so chill and doesn't worry about anything. he is such a chill parent. i'm the one cleaning stuff, telling him to please be careful with the baby. i wish i can be more chill. about everything. seems like an easier way to go through life.

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floppyghost
Sep. 9th, 2014 11:03 am (UTC)
*hugs* I'm pretty chill too, but I think every parent worry sometimes, it's a basic parental function I think. Rationally we all know that it tend to end up okay in most cases, but that never stopped me from worrying, and still doesn't though I worry about different things than I did when the kids were babies.

I try to at least worry about the right things, sometimes I manage, sometimes I fail.

http://qr.ae/b0Ysv
ripresa
Sep. 9th, 2014 02:10 pm (UTC)
that link describes me. worrying about dramatic and rare stuff over things like eating veggies.
sigh.
floppyghost
Sep. 9th, 2014 11:04 am (UTC)
So, I added another comment here, but was told by LiveJournal that it was "marked as spam" (perhaps because it included a link).

You might need to look in your spamfolder if you want to see it :-)
mdf356
Sep. 9th, 2014 02:06 pm (UTC)
It takes two
I'm the chill parent, not worrying about anything while M freaks out. And sometimes I wish she could be more relaxed. But sometimes she's right and whatever it is she was worried about was a problem...

It takes two and having a balance is good.
gailmom
Sep. 15th, 2014 06:31 am (UTC)
I SO hear you!
Bill was the chill one. So relaxed, always seemed assure of himself, and I was all "wash your hands! clean that it fell on the floor! Support her head!"

The best advice i got was to remember that each caregiver takes care ofa little on in their own way, and the very fact they caregive differently is good for babies brain; back off adn let other parent the way they feel is best, and dont' question your own way.

ALl of you are contributing to little ones brain pathways, and all of you matter. :)
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