The first was an improv orphan thing where I felt anti social. The home was a geek haven with books and star trek memorabilia so I could be anti-social happily.
Also, no mashed potatoes and no whole turkey! This was fixed at the second orphan thanksgiving we went to which was a crowd of queer, poly, burner folks and their parents. It was pretty chill.
Then we played social games at troy and ruby's and that was the one I enjoyed most since I love boardgames.
Baby went to all three and did amazing except she got tired at the last one which was understandable since it was midnight!