I just focused on my closet and I've purged 15 garbage bags of clothes.
now my closet really does bring me joy. when i see how messy Andy's room is, I just go to my closet and feel happy again.
It is rediculously cleansing. I've thrown away trophy shirts from past lovers. My 10 year anniversary at Dell award. Momento t-shirts. What a waste of space. They just stayed in the back of my closet, and wouldn't be seen unless you were moving, or dead.
The rest of the apartment is still a mess, but that was such an effort to do my closet I need a break, but I'm itching to throw more stuff away.